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The Essence of Good Parenting

Good parenting primarily displays on one’s attitude towards it. Good parenting styles always require great efforts to bring up your kids with the values you sincerely believe in. Don’t forget without good parenting the child will not grow as a good citizen of the nation.

Albeit, it is not easy to bring up your child the way you believe but put your best efforts to instill in them those traits which leave them inspired for rest of the life.

Good Parents Never Put their Children Down


Never insult your kids in any way as it eliminates their confidence which is not a good parenting.

Good Parenting requires interaction with your Children in an Affirmative Manner

If you are facing some domestic glitches talk with your children in affirmative pitch explaining your problem to them. Make them clear that you expect their cooperation and they should behave properly as you do not want to reprimand them. This sort of behavior on your part is the basics of good parenting styles.

Other Sources of Information


If you want to glean more knowledge pertaining to good parenting, go online and you will get sufficient tips on good parenting styles which may include book or magazine.

Give Good Reasons for Specific Behavior


Whenever you want your child to behave in certain manner explain the reason to him as to why he should do it. Similarly when you want that your child should not act in a specific manner explain the reason to him as to why he should not do it.

Explaining reason to your child is a part of good parenting styles.

Don’t Compare your Child with his Siblings


If you have two kids, do not try to compare them. Every child has its unique abilities/disabilities and if you compare them it will give him/her a sense of inferiority and he/she will loose his/her confidence.

You should only highlight the abilities of your child which is the golden rule of good parenting styles.

Develop Self-Esteem of Child


Just don’t bother about other children’s thinking. You should assist your child in establishing ‘self-esteem’. If your child develops self esteem he/she will never bother about the thinking of other children about him/her.

Instill Mannerism to your Child


If your child sometime expresses anger you should teach him the exact and different ways of expressing anger and that too in an honest manner. If your child is feeling low he/she should express it also in a modest way before his/her loving family members and he/she should be taught by you in this regard.

These tips are very important for the smooth development of your child. Good parenting requires these skills to be adopted and pass on to your child.

Don’t Display Extreme Behavior


If your child has committed some mistake, don’t threaten him that you will abandon him if he/she repeats the mistake. You know yourself well that you can’t do this and that this is a lie.
So don’t tell before a child as the child is innocent and will believe that lying is not a bad habit which is not a sign of good parenting. Besides this he will not trust you which will neither be good for you nor for your child.

Being a parent you should always be a role model for the child. Kids learn from their parents. You should adopt a balanced behavior and virtues and pass it on to your child. Good parenting inculcates values of life in child.